OMG, what a heartfelt and moving piece ❣️ ❣️
First off, I can super relate to her ‼️

I was habitually single and incel in my hometown. DC is NOT the place to find love for big, darker skinned, wholesome, black female who is into traditional values. In fact, DC is not much of an ideal town to get hitched for any old-fashioned person with traditional values ‼️

2nd all females love to get dressed and dolled up! Men just wanna bust a nut and find a loyal chick to be there for him, take care of the house, and produce kids. Females want the glamor and adoration that Glamor Shots, a gorgeous wedding make over and photo shoot offers, or Disney’s Bippity Boppity Boutique (which dolls out kids but not adults) ‼️

For all practically purposes, getting eloped to a very flawed mate just to “secure” your relationship is technically enough for both. Getting dolled out is something just for the female who needs more than anything to be pampered and adored. The perfect honeymoon for this “marry yourself” thing is a weekend at a day spa full of massages, facials, Jacuzzi, and breakfast in bed wedding dresses for big bust ??‍♀️ ? ??‍♀️ ? ?? ??

And lastly, I rebuked, break, and destroy each and every curse of singleness and unmarried-ness placed upon me via the universal power of the spoken word ‼️ ‼️ . & I defy what fate tries to spew at me.. Additionally, I broke out of the stagnate hell hole of habitual singleness and RAN FROM DC TO NY for opportunities to successfully find a mate….and I have ‼️ ? ??
Amen ?