77 COMMON MISTAKES SINGLES MAKE
1. Failure to understand that marriage is
ultimately about destiny.
2. Failure to understand that marriage is not a
solution to the problem of promiscuity.
3. Being consumed with the desire to be
married.
4. Appearing desperate and not valuing
yourself.
5. Believing that marriage will solve all your
problems.
6. Making the first move, as a lady.
7. Getting physically involved in a relationship formal dresses for women over 40
much too soon and going too far before
deeply considering what the marriage would
look like.
8. Misinterpreting the attention of the
opposite sex.
9. Ignoring danger signals in a relationship.
10. Failure to discover your purpose before
looking for a partner.
11. No seeking for divine direction before
stepping out to get who to marry.
12. Deciding to marry someone you know you
shouldn't because of the fear of not having
another suitor or the fear of remaining
unmarried and lonely.
13. Deciding to manage or cope with someone
you do not truly love.
14. Deciding to go into marriage with someone
because of his or her wealth.
15. Premarital sex.
16. Yielding to pressure.
17. Using sex to keep a relationship or
partner.
18. Deciding to be pregnant for the man
inorder to marry you.
19. Looking only for material things before
deciding who to marry
20. Recieving gifts without knowing the giver
very well.
21. Following someone you do not know well
to a place you do not know as well.
22. Not taking your spiritual life seriously.
23. Using singleness as an excuse not to go
on living your life well.
24. Give up on marriage.
25. Holding unto the past.
26. Dating married man or women
27. Random sampling / being too easy.
28. Wasting too much time on unavailable
men or women.
29. Giving an intended spouse unfettered
access to your money or possession.
30. Being too picky and judgmental
31. Telling lies to your partner.
32. Double dating or flirting with others.
33. Starting a focusless relationship.
34. Being overbearing.
35. Trying too hard to impress.
36. Being ignorant of the mystery of spiritual
marriage.
37. Going out with someone who never makes
you a priority.
38. Going into a marriage because a prophet
says so.
39. Looking for a partner inorder to hurt your
parents.
40. Lack of preparation for marriage.
41. Trying to change the other partner.
42. Providing too much information too early.
43. Feeling insecure.
44. Getting married out of pity.
45. Unplanned pregnancy.
46. A good sex life is all that is needed for a
good marriage.
47. Intentionally loosing her virginity before
marriage with the wrong impression that man
hate virgins.
48. Patterning your marriage after those of
celebrities.
49. Stringing him along for too long.
50. Spending the better part of the youthful
life pursuing career and education.
51. Ignoring unbroken covenants.
52. Dismissing the subject of unholy dressing.
53. Without a formal proposal , because of
your closeness , you just assume both of you
are in a relationship or courtship.
54. Co-habiting without legally married.
55. Staying in a relationship for years without
knowing each other's relatives.
56. Expecting what you cannot give or willing
to give.
57. Going out with someone who loves you
behind clossed doors but is very distant when
with friends or family.
58. Love at first sight.
59. Neglecting career and personal goals.
60. Tribal connection.
61. Thinking that the only necessary
requirement for a relationship is being a
churchly person.
62. Think you can never do without a person.
63. Making the opposite sex your best friends
, even while in a relationship.
64. Not going to where the men or women are.
65. Believing that women are interested in
that macho nonsense.
66. Boasting.
67. Reliance on friend's recommendation
insted of praying for God's contribution.
68. Marriage based on trial and error.
69. Forced marriage.
70. I can be getting money from a man or
women without allowing him or her to sleep
with me.
71. Marriage as an escape route from parental
influence or domination.
72. Matchmaking.
73. Thinking they will be in their twenties
forever.
74. Relationship after demonic consultations.
75. Becoming an internet or social network
addict in search of a spouse.
76. Giving a false impression about your
relationship status.
77. Merging your savings accounts while
unmarried